happy little things

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the days have been racing by and a lot has changed from the time of my last post. right now i am enjoying my newly-discovered peppermint tea in my new favorite jumper feeling cozy and happy to be where i am today. life is one hell of a journey, but sometimes we really should stop and smell the flowers.

with the chaos and the over-stimuli of modern age, its very common to feel lost and overwhelmed. the things that really matter to us tend to fade in the back and we forget what we truly enjoyed in life. a few days ago, i had a talk with my friend who does not own a smartphone (simply because she hated it), and she was wondering how we ended up this way.

its hard to trace back exactly, but i personally believe it went down when we started centralizing everything. when i say centralizing, i mean when we basically concentrated the online traffic and digital content to these big corporations that only get bigger the more data we feed them. we are no longer surprised that we all see the same exact feed, matter of fact, we are surprised if we don’t.

we laugh at the same things, consume the same media, speak the same way, and we outcast the ones who don’t understand. this fomo cycle reels in more people and the user base keeps increasing more and more. we went from using the internet to respond to our social needs to using it to pretty much destroy our perception of the real world. it might just be my nostalgia speaking, which is a valid argument, but we can’t deny that ad revenue and engagement metrics stand above everything.

she then asked me “what can we do to remedy this?” and it left me thinking for a while even after i answered her. my initial response was that we don’t need to participate in this. we can enjoy the things we like the same way we always have. just like she disliked her smartphone and decided she didn’t want it anymore, and just like i ditched my music streaming services and started owning my music.

the internet will not change, in fact, i think it will just keep growing infinitely; such is the nature of technology. however, there will always be those small communities that nurture individuality and ownership and create a safe space for people to express themselves. what are some niche things that you enjoy? im curious to know! for me, its these ascii arts that were so popular back then ↓ ↓ ↓

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they are so fun! i hope we can continue to appreciate the little things that make us happy in life, regardless how others think we should feel about them. being your own self and enjoying differences is what makes social interactions so interesting to me. so yeah, be kind to yourself and spread kindness (づ ᴗ _ᴗ)づ there isn’t enough of that in the world! that’s all from me, if you have any thoughts im happy to hear it! until next time my pookies, peace!

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